May 11, 2020

How to Use A Wand Vibrator

It's no secret that a wand vibrator is the cornerstone of any notable sex toy collection. There is a reason why Hitachi wands have been best sellers since their advent in the 70s: They deliver powerful, insanely awesome orgasms. Check out out our MagicMen online adult shop page which has everything adult shop related that you might need.

The wand is the clit-whisperer. No matter who you are or what you like, almost every woman will agree that a wand vibrator is the best thing in the world. Did you know that the love you have for your wand can be a part of partner sex and not just your favourite masturbation accomplice? Yes, that's correct. The two things are not mutually exclusive. Here's how to use your favourite giant sex toy during sex.

A wand vibrator is a vibrating sex toy that is shaped like a stick or a rod. These types of vibrators are commonly used to stimulate erogenous zones and are available in several different styles. Some are long and slim, while others are short and slim. More substantial wand vibrators, such as the Hitachi Magic Wand, can also be used as body massagers. Many wand vibrators are cordless and require batteries, although some of the most powerful ones are corded. Check out out our Adult vibrator shop page which has everything adult shop related that you might need.

Bringing sex toys into the bedroom is finally becoming a new normal for many people — as .it should. Nearly every woman requires stimulation of the external clitoris to experience orgasm. Sex toys are a conduit to this necessary sexual touching, and vibrators are designed to help you orgasm. Any partner who is comfortable with themselves will not be intimidated by a sex toy, but rather open to experimentation. After all, who doesn't want their partner to come?

Le Wand vibrating wand massagers aren't your fairy godmother's wands, although one could surely claim that they create a "magical" experience. One of the magical qualities people enjoy about this type of massagers is that they are known to be one of the most powerful vibrators. This is because, traditionally, wand massagers were corded and plugged into an electrical outlet, giving them an incredibly reliable source of power.

Wand massagers also tend to be a bit more discreet because they were literally designed to be a massage tool rather than an actual vibrator- which is suitable for those who prefer discretion. Or, if you want your vibrator to double up as a great tool to give a body massage. The same vibrations that feel good for sexual pleasure, also provide relaxing and pleasurable vibrations for a sore neck, back, legs, etc.

When it comes to soothing a sore muscle or working out a knot in your back, some wand massagers work even better than mainstream back massagers. Wand massagers are some of the most potent and popular types of vibrators available. For those of us that demand pure, toe-curling power, these miracle machines deliver as no other sex toy can. Many consider them the perfect pleasure device in almost every way, shape and form. Almost.

The drawback is that wand massagers are much bigger than most other toys. They look more like an oversized microphone than a sex accessory. Isn't that awkward shape and size a bit of a buzzkill when it comes to finding sexy, creative ways to get off?

Wands are the power tools of the sex toy world. There's no subtlety, just 100% full-on throttle. While people have known about "neck massagers" for decades, these vibes remain classic bedroom staples. Here's how to get down with one.

If you're in the early stages of your sex toy adventures, you'll probably want to start with something small and non-threatening. Finger vibrators and pocket rockets are excellent for beginners, but eventually, you'll probably be ready to graduate to something bigger and more powerful. That's where wang vibrators come in.

Wands are, for the most part, freaking enormous. I'm currently looking at my favourite rod, and this sucker is a solid twelve inches long. It's a subway sandwich-sized sex toy.

We love our wands because of their power-packed charge and long handles. They make masturbation easy. You can hold the handle at chest-height and reach the clitoris without moving a muscle. Convenient! The girthy head gives you all-over clitoral stimulation without having to do much in the way of maneuvering.

For the brave amongst you, these same positive attributes can be utilized during partner play. You may have cornered the wand as your solo-only toy, but it's big head and long body make orgasms during intercourse even easier. If you want to ease your partner into it, start by having them watch you use it on yourself. This can be a significant turn on. Seeing how you make yourself orgasm could be just the push your partner needs to get on board.

Wand vibrators are very popular due to their versatility. These vibrators can be used to stimulate several areas of the body, including the nipples, clitoris, penis, and testicles. They can also be used as penetrative toys. Attachments are also available for some of these toys. Wand vibrators can also be used alone or with a partner.

Like all pleasurable sexual activities, foreplay and warm-up are important.

How to Use a Wand Massager

Always use with lube

Lube, glorious lube. It's no secret that we love the slippery stuff.

A generous squeeze of lube on the head of your wand seriously enhances sensations, so grab a bottle of our Enjoy Water-Based Lubricant and glide your way to orgasm.

Warm Up Is Important!

Like all pleasurable sexual activities, foreplay and warm-up are important.

Start by touching yourself to get the blood flowing to your genitals before you add vibration. When you give your body time to warm up, you might find new exciting places to touch (with or without the wand) but the more blood flow you encourage, the stronger your orgasm will become! Check out out our dildo shop page which has everything adult shop related that you might need.

Wands are ideal for integrating into rope bondage. They are large enough to tie onto a partner, and with their wide heads and extreme power, are more likely to deliver effective stimulation even when they slip a little out of place.

One of the most common ways to do this is to tie your wand into a Shibari style rope harness. This tie is sometimes called a Hitachi Harness. If you never learned to tie a proper knot in scouts, no worries. Bondage tape is a great alternative to the rope that doesn't require you to know how to do any fancy bondage ties.

The magic wand can be good for all over body vibrations, as a sensual massage or as a prelude in foreplay to the real deal. At its lowest setting, the massager can be used in slow, circular motions for a deep tissue massage that will help you unwind and make you feel very relaxed.

Release some tension in your/your partner's neck and back, or if you feel like it, explore with the high powered vibrations over your nipples, stomach, bottom, and entire vaginal area.

Good Vibes Only

The strong vibrational power of a wand can elicit moans that you didn't even expect to come out of you. Many people that have never experienced an orgasm use a wand, and the result is an intense orgasm. Turn your wand to its lowest setting and gently stroke it over your shoulders and back in slow, circular motion for a sublime, deep tissue massage that might just lead to other things. And, relax.

Plug-in wands can pack a hefty punch when it comes to vibrations.

If it's the first time, you've used one, start on the lower settings and, once you're used to them, build your way up to the bigger thrills.

Don't Stop Moving!

Because the vibrations of a wand massager are strong, some folks find that holding the wand in just one place for even a short period of time can cause the feeling of numbness. It's important to remember that you are not damaging or desensitizing the nerves if you experience a loss of sensation, back off and give your body a break from the vibration.

To avoid this, keep the massager moving over the entire vulva or penis. You can even stimulate the sensitive nerve endings around the anus. Go in circles, or up and down, or even left to right (Up, up, down, down, left, right, left, right, B, A, start).

Accessorize!

Whether you're most interested in traditional body massage, clitoral stimulation, or internal play, Le Wand offers an accessory for that. We want you to enjoy your wand in as many ways as you can imagine- whether that's inside or outside the body, with a partner or solo. Because the most important part of the experience is that "Your Pleasure is Granted".

For a gentle, nuzzling buzz, reduce your wand's intensity by using it over underwear or bedsheets. Experiment – silk, satin and cotton will all offer different sensations.

Use your wand as part of your foreplay, trailing it over sensitive spots to work yourselves into a frenzy. Add a blindfold or handcuffs to the mix and take turns to tease one another with the vibrations. Check out out our lube shop page which has everything adult shop related that you might need.

Turn your wand into a G-spot-pleasuring toy or vibrating penis stroker by adding a special attachment. Take a look at our comprehensive guide for tips on choosing the right accessories for your massage wand.

Make sex even better.

Whether you're getting it on missionary style or bending yourself into pretzel-like positions, your wand's ergonomic shape makes it easy to add to your play.

Use it to stimulate your clitoris when you're in spoons or, if you're in a female-fe

What’s the best position for wand play?

Starting out with wand play means finding the right positions that are both comfortable and orgasmic for you. Now is not the time to be getting acrobatic. There will find plenty of opportunities for that later down the line. For now, stick to these three basic positions to get placement in order.

Missionary

Your wand can seriously spice up this go-to position. When you're in missionary, slip the wand between you and your partner. If they can stay propped up on their arms, it will help make some extra room for the wand. Hold the wand like you would while masturbating on your back.

The reach of the wand's base helps you access your clitoris without reaching down too far. You'll have ample opportunity to make out with your partner and focus on the combination of internal and external stimulation. Your partner's weight will add to the pressure of the wand head on your clitoris for intense, full-body orgasms.

Open-Legged Spoon

This is like a regular spoon only, you know, open-legged. Lie on your back and spread your legs, bent at the knee. Have your partner enter you from below, perpendicular to your body. Drape your knees over their side. You can align bodies as you would in a classic spoon for more intimacy.

Grab your wand and rest it on the clitoris. This is an ideal lazy-girl sex position. You have total access to your clitoris, while your partner penetrates you. This low-impact position will change how you see your wand forever. Plus, it's super sexy and dirty looking.

Doggy Style

For those of you who enjoy masturbating on all-fours with a wand, this will be your bread and butter. Lie on your stomach, sticking two or three pillows under your hips. Prop your wand against the pillows so you can lean your vulva against the top. Have your partner enter you with either their penis, fingers or dildo from behind.

A wand is amazing for doggy style because you get to ride it while your partner is riding you. You're basically the centre of a filthy nasty sandwich — something everyone deserves.

Queening

This position is great for everyone, but works especially well for same-sex couples. Lean your back against a throne of pillows like a queen. Grab the wand and hold it against your glans clitoris while your partner uses their tongue on the rest of your vulva. The vaginal opening is full of nerve endings and is amazing for exploration. They can also lick up and down your labia. Want to make it even more intense? Have them place a stainless steel dildo inside your vagina while they lick around the opening. The weight of the toy will pull the entire pelvic floor and internal clitoris downwards, resulting in an orgasm for the books.

Scissoring

Scissoring is the act of intertwining your legs with a partner and rubbing your genitals together. Traditionally this is done between two people with vulvas. However, this can also be an equal opportunity sex move. No matter what kind of genitals you and your partner sport, a wand vibrator takes this position to expert level. Place the head of a large wand between your bodies and grind on it simultaneously. This position is undeniably hot and amazingly orgasmic.

Scissoring is the kind of move that sounds way hotter than it usually is IRL, but a wand makes it actually incredible. Lie side by side and intertwine your limbs, each of you grinding against the side of the wand (sharing is caring!) A rechargeable wand lets you roll around without worrying about the cord.

Howling Dog

Doggie is great for getting a bulky wand where it needs to go. And doggie + wand is a classic, but if you want to push it further, try giving your partner control of the wand. A mini-wand is easy to maneuver, and they can tease you with it, press it against a butt plug to make it vibrate and hold it at the base of their penis or strap on while they thrust.

Pillow Thumper

For a beyond orgasmic combo of rumbly vibes and penetration, lie flat pressing your vulva onto an old-school plug-in wand wrapped in a t-shirt or tucked under a pillow (if your clit is extra sensitive.) You can hump the vibrating pillow or just plant yourself there and ride the waves. So. Good.

The Skyrocket in Flight

It turns out, and wands are amazing for penises too! Try pressing a wand on the low setting against the bottom of their shaft for a grand finale finish to oral or a handjob. Seriously, that's all you do–press and hold–and it can lead to spectacular results. Caveats: Ask first–no one wants a surprise power tool on their junk. Use the lowest setting. Find their sweet spot—might be at the base, might be just under the head. And for a whole different sensation, try an attachment designed to fit over the head of a penis.